Conceptual Metaphor Systems
Explore the invisible metaphors that structure how you think, speak, and feel... and decide which ones still serve you.
Architecture of Metaphor Systems
Every phrase you use carries a hidden frame. “Time is money,” “I’m under pressure,” “life is a journey”... each maps one experience onto another. These mappings aren’t decorative. They form the operating system of your mind, shaping how you interpret events, regulate emotion and choose action.
How Metaphor Systems Run
Metaphors loop through your language, thought and feeling. In stress they trigger the same scene... panic under pressure or war on obstacles. When new information doesn’t fit your metaphorical frame you feel stuck or overwhelmed. Recognising which frames are active lets you spot the glitches before they freeze you.
Diagnostic Lens: Phrase-Scanner
Metaphors hide in everyday speech. This lens scans for recurring phrases that imply a structure... identifying the frame beneath the words. By cataloguing your own habitual metaphors, you reveal the default programs running in your mind.
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A Story of Reframing Metaphors
Connor’s career was always “climbing a ladder.” When a promotion stalled he felt trapped. In his journal he logged every ladder-phrase: “I’m stuck on a rung,” “I need higher ground.” He traced the frame to early praise for “always aiming higher.” Then he tested a new metaphor: “My path is a river, flowing around obstacles.” He repeated “I flow through change” each morning. Soon he began spotting lateral moves and collaborations, navigating his career with fluidity instead of tension.
A Mini-Workshop: Phrase-Scanner
Next time you hit friction... deadline stress, creative block, relationship tension:
- List five phrases you use automatically (“burning out,” “hit a wall,” “sold out”).
- Decode each by writing its mapping (Self = fuel, obstacle = wall, integrity = commodity).
- Notice the effect: what feelings and actions follow each phrase?
- Select a fresh metaphor that offers more possibility (“I pace my energy,” “I weave through challenges,” “I stand by my values”).
- Declare it in first person before your next trigger: “I pace my energy.”
- Journal the shift: note how your mood, clarity or creativity changes.
Each new phrase is a patch to your inner operating system.
Metaphor Swap Session
Partner with a peer. Swap one habitual phrase and its new alternative. Role-play a scenario where each fires and coach each other through speaking the new metaphor aloud. This social reinforcement accelerates adoption of your fresh frames.
Next Steps
- Explore Identity Scripting and Internalised Beliefs to see how roles and assumptions intersect with metaphors.
- Get The Dirt for weekly-ish rambles about how this mind stuff plays out in real life.
Further Reading
- George Lakoff & Mark Johnson, Metaphors We Live By
- Mark Johnson, The Body in the Mind: Embodied Metaphor and How It Shapes Thought
- Raymond W. Gibbs Jr., The Poetics of Mind: Figurative Thought, Language, and Understanding
Your mind’s frames aren’t fate... they’re designs you can choose and reshape.